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Doomlord

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Re: Be friendly
« Reply #15 on: September 05, 2012, 05:23:26 am »
Your post is indeed true. I apologize to Merlon for what I did in the Bug Masterthread and hope he will forgive me.

1. Supporting Yggy even though he was wrong (seriously, even if Yggy at one point wanted to apologize, there is very little chance he would - because after reading your posts and your support, now if he does then he is shaming you after you spoke so strongly in his favour). Supporting him means you agree with what he is saying, which means you condone the insults he meted out.
Agreed. I was wrong about this.

2. Attacking the one guy who actually spoke out against the injustice (I can assure you any insults spoken to him, Merlon would have felt it), although to simplify things I won't bother breaking down your post against Croco and point out the multiple issues atm.
3. Calling them fanboys and saying that they are the ones who want a war, acting like you and Yggy are the ones being attacked when it is completely the opposite.
To quote Croco:
Quote from: CroCo
If I were at Merlon's place I also would have felt offended, he just did a great job reporting a great deal of bugs and instead of thanking him, all you do is to bark at him.

How dramatic.
He clearly used an offensive word here. It is obviously a declaration of war from him. Seeing a friend being offended like that and not saying anything? Not my motto at all.

4. Ignoring Yggys insults against Merlon, not only that but acting as if they were not insults, as if it was just a light matter. I said above that insults weren't the problem, but if you insult someone then it needs to be clear that that is the case - if someone comes up and says "that isn't even an insult" then it suddenly MAKES it a problem.
5. Belittling Merlons contribution and hard work, comparing it to Yggys massive contribution (ie elitism, making him feel unwanted and that he is wasting his time here)
6. After realising your misunderstanding (ie realising that Merlon was innocent), not apologizing to him or speaking on his behalf or joining his side, but rather ignoring all the injustice and ending it as if everything is fair and square.
Agreed. I was also wrong here.

If you are innocent of any of this feel free to point out how, anyhow I think that stuff deserves a direct apology to Merlon, not just apologizing for your actions in the incident, and then posting that you were only about 10% of the problem. Truth be told, IMO Yggy's actions were definitely bad, but not as bad as what you did.
I will let you figure out yourself why I bold that part. No offense but it seems really personal to me.

And one more thing, please don't put the 'bad guy' label on my back automatically. A few minutes ago a member joined the chat and immediately logged out when he saw me there. Kind of a 'follow the crowd' thing because I was argueing with people here. It was very rude tbh. I am still friendly to others. There is no need to be so impolite like that.
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